Tuesday, September 18, 2012
earbudless ears.
as i was leaving class today i was about to pull out my iphone, put in my headphones and start my 3 minute walk to the bike rack. this is a usual routine after my last class--actually after every class (minus the bike rack part) but today i decided to not put in my headphones. we had just finished talking about media influencing prosocial behavior in class and although this isn't an example in the media it's an example of the media effecting my prosocial behavior. as i was walking i thought that in general, i would probably be more prosocial if i wasn't in my own little world (headphones in, music somewhat blasting) every time i was surrounded by others. as i was walking i ran into an old friend and didn't have to pull out my earbuds to begin a friendly conversation with her. i got a few silent laughs in as i overheard conversations taking place around me. i continued to think about our class discussion and reflected on my personal application of the concepts talked about. these things i experienced in that three minute walk were extremely more beneficial to me than hearing one song that i would have most likely listened somewhat mindlessly to. im not saying that it's awful to listen to music while walking around campus. i definitely turned on my music for my bike ride home (uphill the whole way--i need something to help it be more enjoyable). i am not someone who thinks everyone with earphones in is antisocial and hates life. i've been that person on campus for the last 2 years. all i'm saying is it might be beneficial to leave them out every once in a while.
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That is so true! I didn't used to listen to music when I walked around campus. But for the last year or so I have been. Some days I wonder if I'm missing out on anything when I'm wearing my headphones. It is kind of nice to just walk and listen to everything happening around you and to just enjoy nature.
ReplyDeleteTotally agree! I particularly love listening to all the other conversations going on around me...is that bad? :)
ReplyDeletehey camille, i loved this post! it made me think of my first year of college (6 years ago...i know i need to finish already!). i had come from a small high school were everyone knew each other and talked. then i went somewhere were it was awkward to say hi to people you walk by and everyone was in their own world with headphones. i remember thinking then and i still think today that people should spend less time with ear buds in and more time having positive interactions with others. this can be as simple as a smile and hello. i think it would make campus a friendlier place.
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