stalking.

i know we're supposed to blog about experiences with the media but tonight i wanted to mention an example of how i resisted using a form of media. tonight i was going out on a(nother) blind date and when he texted me today he included his first and last name in the text. probably for no reason other than out of habit. i was presented with a choice. to stalk, or not to stalk... i have been getting set up a lot lately. i'll admit it though, i usually check them out on facebook before the date happens. (i'll take some but not all of the blame-most of the time the person doing the setting up suggests it). at the time of stalking i have usually already agreed to go out with them so i feel ok about it. i probably shouldn't though. it's not all about the physical and doing the classic "facebook stalk" makes it way too easy to judge unrighteously. tonight i was proud of myself for not succumbing to the urge to stalk him before the date. now the question is, is it ok to stalk him after?!